Inside the Lives of Georgia’s Child Brides – National Geographic
20 April, 2017
Inside the Lives of Georgia’s Child Brides – National Geographic
Mari, 15, lives in the Adjara region. Most girls her age drop out of school to get married. Her grandmother believes it’s a tradition meant to be passed down. “With girls marrying as young as 12, Georgia has one of the highest rates of child marriage in Europe,” National Geographic reports from Georgia.

“No one really knows for sure how many underage girls are getting married in the country of Georgia.

The United Nations Population Fund has records showing that at least 17 percent of girls in Georgia are married before they’re 18 years old—the nation’s legal age for marriage. But what makes it hard to track is that families sometimes circumvent the law, by holding off on registering the marriage for several years. They hold weddings in rural mosques or churches and consider the couple culturally and religiously married.
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A 17-year-old Georgian-Azeri bride in the Kakheti Region. She and her 22-year-old husband-to-be met one month earlier, the day their engagement was announced. A bride’s classmates visit her before the wedding to admire her dress.

Photojournalist Daro Sulakauri grew up in Georgia and remembers one of her classmates getting married when they were both only 12. “I had this disturbed feeling in a way,” she remembers. “I felt like something was wrong. But I didn't understand what it was.”

Those feelings returned to Sulakauri when she began researching women’s issues in Georgia after receiving a grant from the Human Rights House Network.

Remembering her classmate, she started asking around about young marriages. Soon after, she received an invitation to a wedding in a small village, and at the end of the celebration, the young bride started to weep.
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At a salon in the village, a bride gets ready for her wedding ceremony.

“It was so hard to tell her feelings,” Sulakauri says. “Was she sad? Was she happy? For me, she was very confused. So that's why I started to realize I really wanted to do a story on this.”

UNICEF calls child marriage “a fundamental violation of human rights,” and Georgia has one of the highest rates of child marriage in Europe. It’s a tradition that goes back centuries and isn’t confined to one region or religion. And while the reasons for the marriages differ from town to town and group to group, there are a few commonalities. The grooms are almost always older, have finished school, and are of legal age. Typically, it’s the
groom’s mother who begins the matchmaking process, but Sulakauri has encountered couples who met through friends, in school, or online. And though the girls aren’t necessarily forced into the marriages, cultural pressure is extremely strong.
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A 17-year-old bride leaves her house for the wedding ceremony.

“They kind of go with the flow,” Sulakauri says. “Because their great-great-grandmother did the same thing, and their grandmother, and their mother got married at a very young age. So they think that it's the way of life, that that's how it's supposed to be.”
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As friends and family members dance around her, a 17-year-old bride cries while holding gifts of cash.

The people in Sulakauri’s photos are Georgian Azeris, members of an ethnic and religious minority. One of the child brides she met, Layla, was 12 when she married and was living with her husband’s family. Her story in particular stuck with Sulakauri, who remembers that in their first conversations, Layla was very open. “She had all these dreams about the future, what she wanted to be, like a stylist,” she says. “She wanted to continue education and had all kinds of things that she still wanted to do.”
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A Georgian-Azeri couple, who are Muslim, pose in front of a mosque on their wedding day. They met one month earlier, the day their engagement was announced. She is 17 and he is 22.

A year later, Sulakauri reconnected with Layla—and things were different. “She has become a housewife at the age of 13,” she says. “She's not going to go to school, that's for sure. It's kind of over for her in a way.”
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A Georgian family in the Adjara region lives in this house during the summers, a standard practice for farmers in the area. Usually, the houses are more than one hundred years old, and livestock lives on the first floor while the family sleeps on the second.

And it’s not just dropping out of school that will impact these girls forever. Sex education is virtually nonexistent in Georgia, and Sulakauri says that some girls don’t understand what marriage entails until after the wedding day. A Reproductive Health Survey in 2010 revealed that “some 76.6 [percent] of married women aged 15 to 19 years used no method of modern contraception.” Unsurprisingly, then, many young brides get pregnant soon after the wedding, which can cause all sorts of health complications for their still developing bodies.
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Mari, 15, lives in the Adjara region. Most girls her age drop out of school to get married. Her grandmother believes it’s a tradition meant to be passed down.


When Sulakauri meets these girls, she can’t help but think of her own childhood. “It was very different,” she says. “I was a kid as long as I could be a kid, you know?” If her work can’t grant that same childhood for the brides she photographs, she’s hopeful it could change the future for others.
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Sali is 13 years old. While she’s not yet married, her grandmother told Sulakauri that she sees no harm in early marriages.


“I wanted to show people in my country that this was happening. It can lead to change. Maybe they will start talking about it: ‘Maybe this should not happen. Maybe it's too young.’”
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Twins Monika and Laura, living in the Kakheti region, were born when their mother was only 14 years old.

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In the Adjara region, 14-year-old Tamro dances at her sister’s engagement party. While it’s common for girls her age to get married, Tamro says she wants to finish school first.

By Melody Rowell
Photographs by Daro Sulakauri


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